JEALOUSY

The insanely jealous is above all a manifestation of the lack of confidence that the person has in himself and in others. Jealousy is more repulsive than attractive, it bothers much more than close, chokes and fastest way to disenchant the other, giving it a feeling of oppression and imprisonment.Jealousy is the only fruit that exists in the heart of pessoa.Você can not demand that someone stop being jealous if his heart is tainted with pride, selfishness, possessiveness, suspicion, greed, arrogance. Think about it: if I need a person to insist that she loves me, which makes me think that she belongs to me?Jealousy is an emotional appeal oppressive result of inability to maintain a relationship. The jealous person is at heart, a spiritual poor, dependent, lacking attention, insecure and unable to find smart alternatives to regain his (her) partner (a). Surrounding the person believes that all forms, you can manipulate it and control it. Now how can someone who barely knew you, want to track your steps and send in your heart? Not even God does that! History shows that dictators leaders are the first to be betrayed. Those who seek power through oppression, are the first to take shots from behind. Furthermore, statistically 80% of couples end their relationship because of jealousy, and of these, 90% on the initiative of women.But how to ensure that my partner is faithful forever? Vai a hint of Roninho: 1) BALANCE & 2) Reconquest!1) Have a little jealousy does not hurt. If you want to keep a handful of sand in your hands, do not close completely, because the sand will slip through your fingers, and if you open too, the sand is blown away. The secret is in the balance, because everything in life has a certain extent!2) And winning the hearts that conquers the mind and body. Reversing this order, is putting the cart before the horse. The fidelity should be built from the inside and not from outside to inside. If you feel jealous, learn one thing: jealousy, and not arrest anyone, doubled the likelihood of infidelity, sow discord and hides the truth. Instead, show affection, call or send SMS to person to know if she is okay, check if she needs something, tell her you love her and emphasize its importance, rather than charge reports that only erode the relationship.The Bible says that love is patient, love is kind, love does not envy "(I Cor 13). Therefore, instead of jealousy, I prefer to have the person I admire and see in me someone so special, she will not even have to do something wrong, and therefore she will be faithful spontaneously respect my absence and regardless of distance, she will honor me. I love the thought of Augusto Cury that combines perfectly with this idea: "Never ask someone to love him. Never ask someone to admire him. Love, admiration, and respect are built WITHOUT PRESSURE, irreplaceable soil of freedom. " Are demonstrations of affection that loyal people and not the charges! Thinking thus, I stop being a victim of uncertainty and I become accountable to motivate my spouse to be faithful!So if you love someone, do as advised Dalai Lama: "give this person wings to fly, roots to stay and reasons to return!"

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