TAKE YOUR EMOTIONAL

Do not blame or blame others for your emotional state, for their failures or their sorrows. Notice the words of Roosevelt: "No one will hurt you without your consent", and yet the words of Gandhi: They can not take our respect, if not surrender to them. "
Do not be a victim of circumstances, for what we are and how we depend solely on our choices!

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DO NOT BE WE METEORS, BE WE PLANETS

"How small meteors are attracted by larger planets and diverted their routes ... It is natural that we are attracted and diverted by what awakens our desires temporary ... But we must never forget that many of these desires or" temptations " tend to distract us our goals and put us on a collision course with failure ... instead of meteorites, we are stable and larger planets in their orbits, subjugate and mastering our desires, rather than being dominated by them. "

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JEALOUSY

The insanely jealous is above all a manifestation of the lack of confidence that the person has in himself and in others. Jealousy is more repulsive than attractive, it bothers much more than close, chokes and fastest way to disenchant the other, giving it a feeling of oppression and imprisonment.Jealousy is the only fruit that exists in the heart of pessoa.Você can not demand that someone stop being jealous if his heart is tainted with pride, selfishness, possessiveness, suspicion, greed, arrogance. Think about it: if I need a person to insist that she loves me, which makes me think that she belongs to me?Jealousy is an emotional appeal oppressive result of inability to maintain a relationship. The jealous person is at heart, a spiritual poor, dependent, lacking attention, insecure and unable to find smart alternatives to regain his (her) partner (a). Surrounding the person believes that all forms, you can manipulate it and control it. Now how can someone who barely knew you, want to track your steps and send in your heart? Not even God does that! History shows that dictators leaders are the first to be betrayed. Those who seek power through oppression, are the first to take shots from behind. Furthermore, statistically 80% of couples end their relationship because of jealousy, and of these, 90% on the initiative of women.But how to ensure that my partner is faithful forever? Vai a hint of Roninho: 1) BALANCE & 2) Reconquest!1) Have a little jealousy does not hurt. If you want to keep a handful of sand in your hands, do not close completely, because the sand will slip through your fingers, and if you open too, the sand is blown away. The secret is in the balance, because everything in life has a certain extent!2) And winning the hearts that conquers the mind and body. Reversing this order, is putting the cart before the horse. The fidelity should be built from the inside and not from outside to inside. If you feel jealous, learn one thing: jealousy, and not arrest anyone, doubled the likelihood of infidelity, sow discord and hides the truth. Instead, show affection, call or send SMS to person to know if she is okay, check if she needs something, tell her you love her and emphasize its importance, rather than charge reports that only erode the relationship.The Bible says that love is patient, love is kind, love does not envy "(I Cor 13). Therefore, instead of jealousy, I prefer to have the person I admire and see in me someone so special, she will not even have to do something wrong, and therefore she will be faithful spontaneously respect my absence and regardless of distance, she will honor me. I love the thought of Augusto Cury that combines perfectly with this idea: "Never ask someone to love him. Never ask someone to admire him. Love, admiration, and respect are built WITHOUT PRESSURE, irreplaceable soil of freedom. " Are demonstrations of affection that loyal people and not the charges! Thinking thus, I stop being a victim of uncertainty and I become accountable to motivate my spouse to be faithful!So if you love someone, do as advised Dalai Lama: "give this person wings to fly, roots to stay and reasons to return!"

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BE A STEP UP!

Close your eyes for all that you cause moodiness, pretend you do not even know. Looking radiate joy and peace, bringing the memory back all that you hope and faith. Nobody can resist a person who exudes positive energy. That always worked with people PROACTIVE. They "apparently" have no enemies, and whether there and speak bad of them, prefer not to know. These people speak with everyone knowing who the defamed, will treat them well in the same way as before. Will not seek to judge her nor seeks retribution over defamation. He believes her emotional independence makes up the wounds allocated to them. He know that is only responsible for himself and does not need anyone's opinion to be reaching her goals!

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THE RAIN

"Flood the earth with life and love, and there will always be fertile ground for joy around you!" (Ron)

It's incredible how people are bitter and dry around us, living sulky all the time ... and worst of all is that much less work where should: serving people in HRs, health services, hospitals, shops, etc.. ..
The reality is that big, bad mood eh contagious, it is also like a mirror: you out, reaches the other people around you and back at you again. People living estressaas sulky, are unhappy and just live (The crushed spirit dries up the bones "as the Bible says).
So your heart out instead of being an arid desert, decides to be like the rain that waters the earth. Each watered tree produces about 1000 liters of water per day and this back to nature in order that new rains to form. That is, love cycle that repeats itself all the time. If instead, there would be no rain no trees and no trees would not rain ... your life would be a desert, hot during the day (50 degrees of stress) and high cold night (10 degrees Celsius of pure loneliness).
Break the cycle, to pour love and affection on people and you never miss friends and people who will give you love back.
That never miss endearments in your lips and twinkle in your eyes. Be like pouring rain ... and transform your love life in a desert paradise cozy!

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YOU ARE WHAT YOU ATTRACTS

Your thoughts are the land of the , soil irreplaceable freedom of choice. What you plant determine, by their actions, or what kind of things or people will be drawn up to you.
Invest in flowers, and butterflies will come. Invest in corn and the locusts will come. Invest in honey and bees will come. Invest in wheat and the crows will come. Invest in fruit and the birds will come.
But if it hurts your thoughts there (standing water) it will be a breeding larvae and viruses. And if he is as dry as a desert and harsh, only snakes and lizards will come to you.
After all, what you have sown in your thoughts? And without realizing it, when you complain about the faults of others, you forget that your land ended up being filled with trash.... and what´s trash attracts?

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GIVE LIFE TO YOUR DREAMS

Never allow yourself to dream ...

Believing deeply in your dreams does not necessarily mean that they will be realized, but serve as compass that directs the course of our life.

Statistically speaking, less than 5% of what we have contributed to the realization of our dreams. Do you know why?

Unfortunately ...

We have invested less than 5% of our time creating new things ...
Less than 5% of the time studying ...
Less than 5% researching ...
Less than 0% saving ...

Why many countryes has grown less than 5% per year? Because only 5% are those who do what they like ... and less than 5% are those who give jobs rather than look it up.

Think about it, how many% are the loved ones in your life? Certainly less than 5% ....

Give life to your goals, invest more in them, so their dreams will come true!


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WE ARE AS THE WHEELS OF A BICYCLE

Standing water does not move mills. Electrons stopped do not generate electricity.

"The day you stop growing is the beginning of the end of its success" (John Maxwell).

Chaplin began working in Hollywood studios earning $ 150 a week, a year later, he was earning $ 1,250 per week, plus two years later he signed its first contract for $ 1 million. You know why he did it? Why he wanted to do better every show, he watched his own films and was checking what made people laugh or not. Looked in detail each scene to know where he could do better.

Life in resquest you movement, if we advance, we remain standing. If stopped, we fall! It's like the wheels of a bicycle. There is no greater danger to remain in the comfort zone. Looking better every moment, every day, for that is his your legacy.

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FEEL ALIVE!

It's alive does not make you feel alive. What makes us feel alive is the appreciation and sense of importance that others give us. Make someone feel alive today: praise with sincerity, speak or write words of affection, apologize if necessary ... it all has a magical effect, and in the end it is you who will feel alive!

"DO NOT GIVE THE GOLD"

Positive people turn into gold everything they touch. Negative people turn their gold into garbage!

If someone criticized, invented a story about you, stabbed you in the back, aiming to discourage you, note: "DO NOT GIVE THE GOLD". Do not give him the pleasure of sucking him what's best for you: your motivation, time, energy and talent.

In this life there will always be 5% inspiring people, which will lead you towards greatness, and that 95% will push to mediocrity. The first preach the "gospel of peace", the other, the "good news of doom" . These, like pirates,  they want stop what is best from you. Do not contaminate,  NOT GIVE THE GOLD!

LUGGAGE

"The luggage of life are important, but we must not allow the wounds of the soul prevent us from following trip!" (Rony)

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GOD HELP YOU, BUT TAKE ACTION

God show you the way, but you need to walk through it!
  God give you the bow and arrow, but expects you to shoot!
God give you the fishing rod, fishing but not for you!
  God give you wings, but flying is you who decides!
  God give you the hammer, but it is you who should preach!
God give you a future, but you decide what you will do with it!
  Remember that in all things God gives opportunity, but who needs to grab them is you!
He gives you a book with blank pages for you to write your story!
He will provide manna, but it is you who needs to pick up the basket and go seek!
It will give you courage, but it is you who needs to raise his stick to the red sea is open!
He will give you strength, but it is you who needs to throw the stone to defeat the giant!
He goes with you in the fights! But there is where your limit is that God begins to act!
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YOU HAVE POTENTIAL

We all have an almost unlimited potential and yet few try to reach it.

Henry Ford once said: "There is one man who is not capable of doing more than he thinks he can."

Our potential is God's gift to us and what we do with it is our gift to Him.

"It is unfortunate that many people leave everyone around you decide your agenda in life. As a result they never really decide your purpose. They become a sort of master and makes everything from scratch - instead of being good and focused on one. "(John Maxwell)

HEART OF VALUE GENERATION

"All men die one day, but not all actually live."

Below are some excerpts from Flávio Augusto (Page Generation Value):

William Wallace in the movie Braveheart, in a speech before a battle, when many warriors were already giving up in order to save their lives from the battlefield. In this excerpt, Wallace defied the troops, causing them to reflect on the value of freedom which declared fight. "What would come out alive and pass their lives as slaves?" And he concludes by saying:

"Years from now, you'll look back and come to the conclusion that if I could go back to day trade all this time lived as slaves for a chance for just one chance, to come back to this day to fight and die for their freedom. "

Fight for what you believe today, and need not be sorry for having done nothing in the past to change his story.

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VICTORY IN FAILURE

Failure is the price we pay for success. A survey says that few entrepreneurs are those who got success in 1st time, most had to embitter the failure at least 3.8 times, before you get there.

So do not get discouraged if things do not go as well as you hoped, try as many times as necessary until you can. Resilience and tenacity are essential in the life of someone who wants to win!

Mistakes do not define failure, they are the price of conquest.

"Dropouts never win but winners never quit." (John Maxwell).

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25% OF PEOPLE THAT SUFFER: ANXIETY

Anxiety is often confused with distress, anxiety, or disturbance of the spirit. Anxiety sometimes hurts us, sometimes helps us, putting us on alert. Statistics report that about 25% of people suffer from this problem. Anxiety is the sister of impatience. It's like hunger, the stronger, the greater the rush for something to happen.As Mario Quintana said: "Love is when passion has another appointment scheduled, when anxiety is always missing many minutes for whatever."To solve the problem of anxiety is necessary:1 - Understand the real reasons that cause this feeling. If you think, for example, they may lose their jobs because of the global economic crisis, evaluate what is the risk of it actually happening.2 - Be resilient, have the ability to overcome. Resilience is, in brief, a combination of strength and flexibility. If the worst happens, who said there was no chance to rise? It involves a major change in how you accept and react to a frustrating situation.3 - Put faith in its value. Look at his ability. If the worst happens, who said there was no chance to rise?The Bible says in I Peter 5:7: "Casting about him" Jesus "all your anxiety, because He cares for you."Do you know where the key to change?What makes up 95% of your mind. Yes, your unconscious. 95% of everything you are doing and decide based on it. The unconscious is coated with emotion. We can not control him away, but we can train you. That's why older people are more patient, because the "bumps" of life helped them be more flexible and tolerant.A thought generates an action that generates a habit, which in turn strengthens your thoughts, forming a character. It is a cycle. And all this occurs very slowly. After all, with all that is human being slow is fast. And it's fast, it's slow.If you recognize your anxiety, you've taken the first step. Now just train your patience at least 21 days (minimum time needed to build a new habit). Going steady, slowly is achievable. Direction is more important than speed.Think about it: the weather and wind are two things that surround us, but both do not stop you. The more you fight, they follow its course.Our life is a candle, if we run too fast, the wind goes.The candle can not force the wind ... and we can never stop time. However, we can do something to feed the fire and let it harder and harder ... know what?Oxygen!So relax, breathe, be flexible with yourself and with others. Thus their anxiety is slowly reducing ..."Grant us, Lord, needed Serenity to accept the things we can not change, Courage to change the things we can, and Wisdom to know the difference" (Prayer of Alcoholics Anonymous)A big hug to everyone!

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